Asuri Sampada

A dog bits a man is not a news but opposite man bits a dag is certainly a news. It will find place in the front page of any news daily. This is the basics of journalism Nothing has changed. Sunday the last; there was a news item in the leading daily on the front page that Husband has moved an application in family court under the pretext of mental cruelty for divorce. Reason wife called him Hijra. The learned judge may grant exparte order.

Judicial system always gives decision within the frame work of law but justice is never administered, the Court cases are either decided against the accused or he will be set free. I suppose, Law has to upheld natural justice & ensure injustice to none.

To know what is happening around you, you need not be NGO or practicing in family court but if you keep your eyes and ears opened you may know the plus of the society.

In the generation bye there was a teaching wife should surrender to husband, respect him, he is like God to her. That was the reason in spite of great degree of torture wives accepted as fate accompanied.

I really appreciate & hands up to the lady to come out openly against her husband. Husband compliant that women always felt superior to him & would tell her marring to him is a mistake ,due to continuous mental torture & humiliation he could not concentrate on his work & health deteriorated.

Though there are many crimes committed by husband on wives but majority prefer to keep mum. Only the new generation has will & guts to move to the court for divorce as their married life & life partner is not compatible. This reformation is much needed in our society.

I am not per see supporter of mass divorce or multiple divorce as found in west. I have seen law of karma is also not operating to punish the torturing entity.

There are many Husbands who has following qualities ‘

1 Treat wife as subordinate, non entity in his scheme of things,

2 Treat wives as ATM machine if she is earning, never take her in confidence on financial matters.

3 Always humiliate the wife by abusing her parents, cursing them as they are the cause of all ills.

4 Doubting & suspicious about her to whom she meets, she talks finally Interrogation to the level of crime branch may not indulge.

5 With perversion sexually abusing own wives, no romance only nightmare.

6 He enjoys full freedom for drinking, socializing in parties keeping her away.

7 Creating terrorism in the house to intimidate the wife.

8 Humiliation of highest degree, where imagination of ordinary person may fall short.

9 Apart from treating ill, during her illness. This all creates fertile ground to house many psychosomatic diseases for her.

This list is not exhaustive but indicative of atrocities created against own wife by her so called beloved husband. This is not borrowed from TV serials viz Crime Petrol or Sawdhan India.

Other day I was studying 16th Chapter of Bhagwat Gita. In this chapter lord Krishna says, Oh, Arjuna there are only two type of persons one with divine qualities & another with Asuri-Demoniac qualities. But in real life it is difficult to cope with such Asuri pravrutti’s of better half. 

Last generation wives suffered as fate accompanied such atrocities, once again I salute the lady to call her husband Hijra, thief, and psychopath as the case may be.

This is not to antagonize anyone but just sharing my observation with you. With a request, just ponder over & inculcate divine qualities in you to live a matured life.

Ajeet Bhide